Thursday, January 17, 2013

Are you really a loving wife?

Do you know the famous quote "Behind a great man there is a great woman"?

I really don't like this quote in this way, so I would like to rephrase it:
"Behind a loving husband there is a loving wife".

Are you really a loving wife?

Sometimes life is full of tasks and our "to do" list is really full.
So we run and run all day without thinking, with the only idea to do it all!
Sometimes there are problems in family, maybe financial , health...
Our poor brains could explode! We can be so overwhelmed!
I can relate, every single word of this post is based on my personal experience.

And soon or later we could start to take for granted our husband without realizing and wanting  it.

Do you know that we could risk to became a self-centred wife?
Even if we love so much our husband.

Now the question is spontaneus.
Your husband? 
How could he feel? Alone, neglected, taken for granted?

If you are in a situation like this in your life, please, please, keep calm, stop for a minute.

You need to "reboot" your system.
This is not a wise way to live your life.
This is not marriage.

First, God is in control.

Second, God is the answer to the heaviness and the worries of life. He tells us to cast our burdens on Him because He cares for us. So you can fix every single problem.

Third, you have chosen to live your life with your husband, not to have just company, but to share the precious gift of life. So you can't take your husband out of your life.

He needs you too. 
He can feel overwhelmed too.

You love that man, you promised to stay with him every single day of your life, to share everything with him, bad and good days.
You can't leave him alone now thinking only about you.

11 Proverbs 31: 11-12
Husband depends on her,
and she never
lets him down.
12 She is good to him
every day of her life.

A husband must have the possibility to trust his wife too.

The only way in which a husband can be 100% sure of his wife and absolutely count on her, is the fact that she has God first in her life and she loves Him more than anyone else in the world . When Jesus is at the center of our lives, there is stability, calm, peace and mutual trust. When the husband finds his wife in this, the Bible says that he will never run out of anything. Why? Because while he's away from home, at work providing for his family, he knows that his wife is taking care of home, family and children. He rests in the heart because he knows that when he returns home, he will find a warm smile waiting for him, a big hug and a cozy home filled with love.

Much love,


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Womanhood With Purpose
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  1. Thank you for linking this wonderful post up to Matrimonial Mondays. I will be featuring this post next week! :)

    1. Thank you so much Kendra! It will be a great pleasure and honor for me!

  2. Wonderful post.^^
    Maybe follow each other???
    My Blog

    1. Thank you!
      I follow you with pleasure!

  3. Gege, you are a wise woman! Clearly, one who make sure her home life -and those within it- are fully blessed. Thanks for joining the Why I Love My Husband link up party.

    1. Thank you so much Fawn! We as women, wife and mothers have this wonderful task in our life and we are so blessed!

  4. Thank you so much for the follow,dear.^^
    Follow you back on gfc.
    Have a nice weekend!!!

    1. Thank you! Have a wonderful weekend!

  5. Learn to become a lovely wife from today *blush*
    I just follow you, do you mind follow back?

    1. You are so kind! I will follow you with pleasure!

  6. LOVE THIS! You are such a beautiful writer, my friend! Amazing!!!

    1. LOVE YOU FRIEND! Thank you so much!

  7. Gege what a beautiful post and what a lovely blessing you are to your husband. I love the look of your blog it is so warm and cozy. Love you my friend, Marci

    1. Thank you Marci!!! I'm happy you like the new look of my blog! <3 <3 <3

  8. Sono un nuovo iscritto dalla Matrimonal hop blog Lunedi. Mia madre è nata in Svizzera, in modo da poter capire un po 'di tedesco e francese. Sto utilizzando Google Translate per l'italiano, perché l'unica cosa che so come si dice in italiano è "Pisa e piccola, ma bella." Hai un bellissimo blog! E scrivere in inglese meglio di molti di madrelingua inglese che conosco. : O)

    1. Thank you so much!!!! I try my best but I have still to improve my english, I would like to say so many things, but sometimes I don't know how to write them! :-)
      So you are a little european just like me! It's nice!!!

  9. Gege, this is beautiful! You are so right. Unfortunately it's easy to neglect our husbands when we get so busy with our homes and our children.

    But our husbands need to be able to relax at work, knowing that we are not forgetting about their needs and knowing that they can come home to a loving wife who welcomes them with a smile and open arms. When we are loving the Lord and putting Him first as we should, He enables us to love our husbands and families as we should!

    Thanks for linking up to Making Your Home Sing Monday!

    1. You are so right! God is the way! Thank you! <3

  10. I am so happy you posted this message of positivity, encouragement and truth. Sometimes life can be too overwhelming for many of us to handle appropriately. We get bogged down by too many factors and forces that should not be the focus of our lives, and certainly should not be by which we define ourselves. Financial and social forces should not be the centers of our attention at no point in life. We should take a deep breath every day and recommit our lives to God through prayer and an outpouring from our hearts—only then can we refocus our lives to that which is most important: God and family. By doing this we can evaluate our relationships with our husbands and see how we can be there for them with more love and more support. After all, our husbands are doing the same thing for us, they are our partners in life through all the good and the bad. Common Marriage Issues

    1. Thank you Ellen! I absolutely agree with you!!!


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